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欠了很久的一篇。:p


20/3 Shangri-la hotel

Tonight is special for me. Thanks Kenny for making an awesome date with Min Ki. Then i shall ask, who is Min Ki? His full name is Kim Min Ki, a korean, graduated from Yonsei University, now at an age of 33 but he retired 3 years ago! He is young but when you meet him up, you will know that his mindset is far away mature than i thought. He is a sportsman (very muscular! hehe), recently having his first class trip in Singapore( free one!) plus participating triathlon, total 70.3km!

I met him up at ShangRi-la hotel. He is very friendly to everyone of us, you know, a broad smile will always breaks the ice between people. When i shake my hand with him, i can feel his confidence firmly. Now, all of us should start our conversations. =)

Do you face any difficulties in this business? how do you overcome them?
Kim: Everything has its difficulties. Why difficult? Because you hav a choice to give up. If you are doing sth, you are just like running a race. In middle of the race, you have two choices, 1: keep going 2. Give up. Ya, you will confront setbacks and obstacles while you are running and sometimes you are fatigued and intended to give up. But, just whenever you try to give up, consider again. If you give up, you din finish the race, you din win the medal, nth change in your life. However, if you continue your race, be consistent and finally you will and you can finish the race. And someone will say to you, Well done! Good Job! You did it!

How can you motivate yourself even received rejections?
If someone rejects you, is their choice! Not yours! You dont have the choice to let them choose what you want them to be. You cant read others mind, but you can read ur mind. Dont be afraid of rejections, try again and again and again. Read your mind, focus your mind, experience the rejections and finally you will meet someone that hav real mind as yours.

Find your goal, set your goal. Ask yourself what's the reason to keep your move, what 's drive you to live your life? What are you strive for? Keep asking yourself, you will have the passion to continue you works, you have the big mind, think big, every difficulties is a piece of cake to you.

How can you be successful?
Dont worried about the failure. There is no failure in your life, but experience! Learn from the mistake, only you can make the mistakes. Sometimes, other will see you as an idiot but you know yourself are not the idiot! Let me give out an analogy, if you can get the diamonds by keep walking backward on the road for a month, will you do that??? Everyone wants the diamond but not everyone willing to walk backward because they think this is crazy!!! Yes, if you keep walking backward in your daily life, others may think you are insane. But, you know yourself are not! Cuz you see diamonds in the terminal point. Remember, pain is temporarily, but glory is permanent. Quitter never wins, winners never quit. Visualize this business and make it happen, dont wait it happen, and dont see my goal as yours. Your success is on your own hand.

Why am i here to meet you?
I believe in all of you.
Change the platform, you may change the world, change your life, a better life.
One life, one dream, one chance, one difficulty.

only one night, we become a fren. 

Dreamers

youngfca!

Minki notes to me!


24/3
拜五回家。整车的人都是外国人,然后坐在我前面的外国baby可kawaii!!! 哈哈,不是重点。重点是我回家可以用新手机咯!今年,做巴士来回新加坡的次数还真的提高了,下个月又要回去几天了。时间真的可以是快到一个极点,concert 结束了,agm又要开始了,passdown也离不远了。我也快大三了。能够在大学托的日子也不多了,毕业了,到底要做什么呢?你以后的生活要怎样的?别想那么多,写下来先吧。那张纸塞在钱包里,一打开来,看一看的时候总会有给我无形的力量,这股力量也渐渐变成生活的动力了。有人问我说,你怎么可以那么活泼,开朗?。我说,没什么啊,生活有动力,就不会每天想不开心的东西咯。找到生活的动力,自然而然人就会别得比较积极与乐观咯。

今天拜六很曲折下。Leonard and esther kim (Minki 生命中的贵人)的大会在PGRM举行,2点开始。很想带朋友看看这个充满正面力量的环境,一起学习。我可以选择不去,留在sg好好的,何必要做那来回5个小时的车程,听不到4个小时的大会?你很有钱,很有时间啊?还是贪爽?哈哈。很多人的第一反应一定是这样,就连妈咪也这么想。但到底贪不贪爽,只有自己知道,这里头一定有让自己找到的价值。

本来和jh一起去但因为临时有事,所以不能了。还好妈咪说可以载我去,但由于不熟悉kl的路,来来回回寻寻觅觅,赛车的赛车,也不知走了多少个冤枉路,耗了了2个钟头多。那时候我的心在想,haiz...还是不要麻烦了,不找了,回去吧。那35块就算了吧。如果当时候,妈咪也这么想的话,那我真的是去不成了,我们也不会知道那座大厦到底在哪里。所以,我真的很谢谢妈咪,她的一句话很令我感动,“反正都花了那么多时间,也不差那接下来的小时,我不甘心,一定要找到那个鬼地方。” 

再试一次。再试一次。再试一次。
终于,你一会到达你想去的地方。

到了,4点整。本来妈咪也没有兴趣听那个大会了,反正还剩一个小时,进去听听也无妨。为什么要参与大会?大的环境给的力量真的不一样!就连对这个大会超没兴趣的妈咪都被感染了,觉得连累我只听了一个小时。我对她说,如果不是你坚持一定要找到,我连那一个小时的演说都听不到!



站在高处中,每个人都一样,不分阶级,不分年龄,不分学历,

 不分背景,大家都是有活力,积极,有朝气的人!
 Malaysia, Vietnam, Korean team leader.. and many more!

 Miss 掉了Min ki 的演说,能听到一个小时,也觉得满足。=)

To encourage of life excellence, "no regret"
To provide success opportunity, education, training and motivation.
To make our children smile.

God created man and woman for greatness.




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这个星期虽然有点忙,因为concert要到的关系;虽然有点烦,因为要看长到屁酱的e-webcast + 改booklet (结果还给我弄错!>.< gek hei!)
但是回想起来,那些经历,累积的经验真的很不错,很充实。记得听cd的时候,听到一句话,它说:忙≠充实。真正充实的日子是可以让你心灵成长的,很踏实的感觉。

我想这几天虽然搞到很累,但心里还是会感到喜滋滋的,满满的。

10/3
七早八早起床,为了要去吃很好吃的素. :P
距离上次去静思堂好像有1年的时间了,突然很想念那个地方,所以就自告奋勇报名了素食料理大赛。(结果因为迟大大大到,miss掉学煮的那part)说到为什么会迟到,还真的觉的自己有点tohsui。因为原本打算自己一个人去的,然后又不知道为什么偏偏上网check到看似很短但却花更多时间的路线。T.T 觉得最搞笑的地方是,竟然有个水鱼和我上了贼船。哈哈。
故事就这样发生了。两个水鱼在巴士上吹水吹到天昏地暗,巴士过站到很远的地方了还不信自己已经过站,结果要顶着晒到皮肤快焦的太阳走回去巴士站,搭回去。1个小时半就酱过了。然后我不知哪来的直觉,feel到静思堂就在不远处,结果就提早下了车。又凑巧的事,那个水鱼亮出了他的gps,然后我们很高兴的说:我们有救了!沿着gps给的方向准没错,死命走啊走啊。希望那座建筑物就在眼前......老天爷还真的带我们“不错", 原来我们离目的地的方向是相反的。>.< 那个水鱼不小心把地图放大了,结果我们只看到一边,另一边没有看到。当时的心情没有很糟,只是觉得怎么我们那么蠢!再来就是觉得很不好意思咧,迟到整整2个小时!


好吧,一个星期的运动量就酱用完了。lol。不过让我感到很欣慰的是那只水鱼没有发牢骚,想法很正面,没有因为迷路,走错路而大呼小叫,反而努力解决问题。这件事也给了我很大的启示,凡事观察一样事情的时候该从多个角度去想,不能只看一边,尝试站在别人的立 场想一想,才不会让自己的脑袋往死角摆, 钻牛角尖。 

15-17/3
concert + 撞到mid term!搞到我还迟到10分钟。不过感到很感动咧,TA竟然那么记得我 (只因一次consultation),还很有心的叫coursemate打电话问我在哪里,gam-dongnya!爱死你了,TA

11人努力的成果!yeah!圆满结束了。虽然觉得自己的工作可以做得更好些。
表演完了还放纵自己吃supper (真的超超超久没吃了),然后和一群疯子玩三国杀玩到半夜三点多。:p  yr one 真的很像度蜜月,差不多都在玩,而且都玩得很夜,搞到我快变夜猫子了。yr two 还真的很少和大伙儿聚一聚,玩一玩。难得一聚,就玩心大起。哈哈。

11人的HTHT,比我想象中来的HT。大家都不会避忌,很坦诚的说出自己的感受,公事也好,私事也好,都侃侃而谈,这也是让我感到意外的。经过了这么多个sem,让我感受最深的莫过于自己的心扉,现在的我有什么心事也不会往里面收了,以前不敢触碰的东西我觉得我都可以摊开来,慢慢回答,可能学会分享与分担了吧, 也可能觉得说没有必要在意别人怎么看待你吧 :p  我觉得这样的组合很奇妙,虽然说我们可能彼此了解不深,但总能让我会心一笑。我有点小遗憾当时的心门很小,有点收收埋埋,无法很畅谈的与每个点心们分享,HTHT说出感受。现在不会了,因为一年真的很快就过去了。今天真的聊了很多八卦,聊到我快疯了。

谢谢你给了我4天快乐的假期。

lab report 堆积中 lol

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最近在早报周刊看了一篇很好的文章,它说

想太多了吗?
不会不会,大多数人都会这么回答吧。
凡事多考虑些,有备无患强一些,那时思考的最低优势。毕竟,花多少时间才算多?想多远,多深才算多?

我们是在伸手不见五指黑暗中寻找一道光线的裂缝呢?还是把原本一线曙光的早晨错解成黑暗的末路?未来深不可测,在结果还没有成形之前,任何人也说不准思想上的偏差,想法上的盲点。其实,有时候,简简单单地做就好,能做完一件事,胜于乱七八糟地搞砸所有的事情。所以有时想太多,不如集中想一个;光想多却没有行动,其实并不能成就什么。

往往我们有时想太多了,大脑会逐渐被某种思绪给洗脑,尤其是负面的思考更具侵蚀力,因为这一种负面的力量会令人走向互相排斥、抗拒、沮丧,然后可笑的是自己还以为自己具有控制这种想法的能力。

怎么想就怎么做,而且享受到最好的过程和成果,当然会后很好的满足感;但是,现实中能够实现梦想,总是具备成功的元素,因此洞悉的力量要耐心培养,否则,梦想最终也只是空的梦,虚的想。

用错误的罗盘指路,越努力思考就越偏离目的地。

失败的快乐价值,在于能够重新塑造新的想法。凡事怕的是提不起,又放不下。

想法决定喜乐,所以每天早上怎么想并加以坚持,就决定了当天行程中的快乐有多少。 =)