甘之馆

Get a life!

两个人相处真的有那么难吗？
对，有时候大家的意见，想法不可能会一样，由于双方没有达到共识，这时候争执就来了。意见分歧，谁都不肯退一步的时候，坚持己见的时候，裂痕就会种在彼此的心里，久久也不能愈合。就算时间冲淡了一切，无意的一个字也能触动彼此的情绪。

这时候的解药唯有互相包容与谅解。彼此的沟通也非常重要，因为我们都不是彼此，某些想法如果不说清楚，不坦白，误解便会很容易产生。因为人很奇怪的，总是很会“以为”。往往这个“我以为” 就断定了别人的想法。这是个陷阱，而往往我们就是喜欢往陷阱踩，即便你我也是如此。知道事实的那一天，除了说自己自以为外，还能说的就只有个蠢字。当然更重要的是那三个字。事情本来可以很简单，但就是这个“以为”，芝麻绿豆小事也能被放大成大件事。

常对自己说，如果对方的情绪很激动，语气很不舒服的时候，自己千万要冷静下来，因为如果自己也不能冷静了，两个不冷静的人相处会更糟糕。但，往往说的真的很容易，真正要做的时候却力不从心。那时候，你很激动，说着说着还不禁流泪。我以为我很冷静，要很客观地处理事情，情绪还可以压抑，看似若无其事的我，怎知一开口说的第一个字，情绪瞬间涌出来，我也不忍啜泣。哭泣不只是因为你，而是感叹双方的关系。

后来了解问题后，真觉得双方太太太太蠢了，就败在“以为”裙摆下。就因为这个，我们失去了包容与谅解。表面上看到的，听到的，未必是我们想象的，我们知道的。我们知道的，也未必是我们了解的。但，若双方不能坦白，何能了解？我不是仙家，更不是专家，所以我也不想肚懒人家，只好做好自己的本分。但，我最不能顶的是那些自以为，好听点叫主观，五十步笑百步，不先照照自已的样子，不承认错误就只会批评，先入为主的白痴。当然，如果有一天我也成为这样的白痴，请给我一面镜子，让我骂醒镜子里的人。

Get a life!

地点：香港-澳门
时间：五月7日至16日
Budget: Rm2000

这几天都在搜寻有关香港的资料。话说为什么会有去香港的计划咧？
因为有一个人跟我说，最近看到很多朋友backpacking ,所以自己也很想尝试，然后就jio了我。
刚好airasia五月份有promotion，机票来回才rm450咧！

然后热爱旅行的我，当然就答应了。与家人商量后，他们也让我去了，好爱你们哦，那么放心方我去。接下来，就要开始找住的地方了。还好香港有朋友，就问看他们可不可以住在宿舍，便宜很多嘛,不过一晚也要HK$200-250

真的是太兴奋了，我提前实现了梦想，在很久以前就想过要结伴实行背包旅行，要怎么去全由我们计划，不过这只是完成梦想的起点。真没想到香港竟然是起点，之前想在西藏作为起点呢。

唷，香港我来了。
我年轻，就要酱玩。XD

Get a life!


Today event is so special to me, though i din manage to bring my fren to come. I am still excited cuz i really can learn a lot of things from the speakers, i come here to invest my knowledge, to earn a new perspective, to gain others experience.

The guest speakers 2day also very energetic and passionate of this business because they own their life they wanted from this business. They said: We are the owner for our life. Frankly, at 1st when i look through this business, i am juz interested of the cash flow of the business system. However, after few months, it changes my mind. I know the true meaning and value of this business, freedom is given to everyone who commits to this wonderful business and  you can own ur lifestyle that you wanted  to be in the future. Juz like the 4 basic cornerstones of the business: Freedom, Family, Hope and Rewards.

Back to the introduction of the speaker, one of the couple speakers are from America, with nationality of Korean, called Dr Shin WonBo and Han JunGah. The couple really fascinating. I am so touched with his wife, miss Han. She is indeed very brave and hav a great courage! Though she is not fluent in English and its pronunciation, she gives out her speech with aplomb. She is very gorgeous! A violinist! She always giv out a big smile whenever her hushband giv out his speech on stage.

For her husband, Dr. Shin, he is from a well educational background with master degree of mechanical and electrical engineering, yet own a double master degree of marine and shipping engineering! Why such an excellent educated person, owned a well income and career still choose to do this business?

Then he answer, you never know who will start this business, because everyone can do it. This is a business that everyone can start with regardless of your educational background, qualification, your age and what you do. If you have a dream, you can achieve your dream here! You wont enlarge the challenges if you own a big big big dream. He told us that our life is juz same as this business, is a marathon. It does not care of whether you run faster than others or start faster, it cares of whether you hav finished the race! Yes, indeed you will confronted lots of obstacles, but if you hav determination, own a huge dream, the challenges are too minor to you! Juz doing this business is not enough, you must finish this business!

I like this phrase, " No pay, no gain. Pain is temporary, glory is permanent and forever."

I believe myself can be successful! I can do it no matter what pain!
From book: "The magic of thinking big"- Launch urself to success with the power of belief and determination. 

终于成为午夜兵团了。
一封msg说1130pm，Ken 会从KL特地来sg和我们聚一聚，我就毫不考虑地去了。
当时还在music camp，而且练习到还蛮迟的，我怕赶不上最后一趟mrt，所以也没回宿舍拿洗刷用具就冒然地去AMK了。就算会到很迟，很累，很脏，但我知道一切都是值得的，别人何尝不是这样呢？

今天是个很棒的分享会。
当然也少不来自我介绍环节，又重新认识了一群人，又看到了每个人的成长。真的和初次见面的我们很不一样。从言谈举止当中，真的感受到每个人得到的感动。Ken 和Edison的感情真的很好，可以看得出彼此间的相信与了解。

Ken 很年轻，很帅，很有活力，很有笑容。
他和我们分享了很多故事，自己成长的故事与经历。
他说成功是一种习惯。只要我们把该做的当成一种习惯。 什么是习惯？就好像上班这样，每天坚持重复做，那我们就离成功不远。要成功必须给自己时间，应为我们所播出去的种子，需要在天时地利人和，温度，水分，土壤与空气的条件下才会慢慢发芽。我们所播取出的种子，我们不知道它几时发芽，但如果我们不勇于播种，那就不会有收成的一天，发芽的一天。
这让我想起Edison曾经也说过相似的话，you rip what you sow, you rip after you sow, you rip more than you sow.

真的是belief，相信
Launch urself to success with the power of belief and let it be ur habit, keep doing, doing and doing.

中间有段小插曲，
原来当天是edison的生日，感动的是Edison竟然知道我几时生日!
然后当场12月生日的就一起庆祝了。当时真的很感动，Edison真的是像个大家长，很关心每个人。当天还和一位朋友同天生日！他叫Billy，真是太有缘了。

如果有这样心思的朋友，真的很感动。